There is a cycle to the divorce process that includes before, during and after the proceedings. If you’re engaging in dissolving a marriage from a person who has a high conflict personality, Narcissist Borderline Personality Disorder or any of the Cluster B attributes, keeping the focus on action vs. reaction is critical. The change to […]
Q&A: How do I apply BIFF to a young teen? Helping him feel heard, but setting boundaries
The Question: I was wondering, if my ex who is narcissistic has half custody and has caused trauma with my teenage children… and one of them is reacting with the verbal vomit and blame anytime he is crossed… and I know he learned that from his Dad… how do I apply BIFF to a young […]
Q&A: Talking about The Silent Treatment! A form of Gaslight used by the NBPD
In answering a question from an attendee both Trissan Dicomes and Angie Atkinson shed some light on the silence treatment The Question: Thus far this has been great. The situation I am in does not seem to be addressed, hopefully in a future webinar it will. The partner that remains silent, and ignores problems, refuses […]
What are you planting?
The other day I just lost it. When I say I lost it, I mean I locked myself in the upstairs bathroom and just sobbed. Have you ever done that? The outpouring came out of nowhere and I couldn’t stop it. With the ceiling fan on the highest setting so I wouldn’t be heard, I […]
