I was speaking to a new client and we are just beginning to learn how to proceed within our relationship. Her anxiety is showing up as multiple, okay a ton, of emails in my inbox. Remembering back to my hypervigilant crisis mode in the middle of “trying” – you know, trying to create and having a sense if I wasn’t doing something
Nothing would materialize.
Do you ever feel that way?
Rapid doing = dream fulfillment?
Now that I am 50+ ( okay 60+) I am here to tell you that doing, doing, doing doesn’t bring that elusive desire closer. It takes you out of your heart, by out I mean away, and disconnected to your internal GPS, your feminine superpower.
I wish I could give you the gift of my wisdom of settling in. Settling into those terrible feelings of lacking and letting them ride through you….
Wise doing vs. unconscious doing takes practice through the what the heck moments.
Because some days the best thing to do is nothing and doing nothing is doing something.
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